RT Book, Section A1 Murtagh AO, John A1 Bird, Sara SR Print(0) ID 1163950371 T1 Lessons in communication T2 Murtagh's Cautionary Tales, 3rd Edition YR 2019 FD 2019 PB McGraw-Hill Education (Australia) Pty Ltd PP Sydney, Australia SN 9781743767443 LK murtagh.mhmedical.com/content.aspx?aid=1163950371 RD 2024/09/20 AB I met Evelyn, a 43-year-old obstetric patient, when I was a medical student. Two of us were asked to conduct a full history and examination with the perennial student attraction being ‘an interesting patient with a hole in the heart’. She was great and talked about the straightforward birth of her seventh child and how well her heart continued to cope. Of course we examined her cardiovascular system and assessed her condition as an atrial septal defect. When asked about how her husband felt about having yet another child she replied that she wasn’t married but that Terry was the father of all her children. She could sense that we looked bemused and added, ‘When I was very young my doctor said that with your heart you should not get married—and I have followed his advice to this day.’